If you are anything like us, you have probably experienced a few relationships. You may have also noticed that some relationships seem to flow more easily than others. One minute it feels like you have finally clicked with someone, whereas other times you can't seem to make things sync in harmony.
What if we told you that there is a simple way to bring more ease and alignment into your relationship? All you need is to be in tune with your energy and how to apply it in your relationship.
A lot of times couples are repelling each other without even realizing this. This is because they are applying the wrong type of energy with their partner which is turning them off. Whether you’re female or male, we all have divine feminine or masculine energy within us, but most tend to identify strongly with one or other and become unbalanced.
In this post, we will explain how to use these energies to create a stronger connection with your partner.
Here Are Tips To Applying Feminine and Masculine Energy:
1. What Is Feminine Energy
Feminine energy is often described as being intuitive, nurturing, and compassionate. It is said to be connected to our emotions and our imagination. When we are in touch with our feminine energy, we are able to express ourselves freely and create from a place of flow. We are open to new ideas and experiences, and we are connected to our intuition.
Feminine energy is often seen as being softer and more passive than masculine energy, but this is not always the case. Feminine energy can also be powerful and assertive. It is also associated with strength, stability, and nourishment. When we are in touch with our feminine energy, we are feeling rather than thinking, and being rather than doing.
Females Tapping Into Feminine- It can be easy for women to feel pressure to conform to masculine energy traits such as being assertive, independent, and self-sufficient when pursuing their career goals and ambitions. However, there is also great power in embracing feminine energy traits such as being compassionate, intuitive, and nurturing. When women allow themselves to connect with their feminine energy, they tap into a well of strength and wisdom that can be transformational not only for themselves but also for the world around them.
A few ways for women to connect with feminine energy are:
Spending time in nature
Embracing art, music, dance, or any other form of creative expression
Wearing dresses on dates embody the flow of the woman’s state of being
Having grace, manner, and elegance
Letting a partner know what feels good and what doesn’t with a calm tone of voice
Having empathy and understanding for others perspectives
Males Tapping Into Feminine - In our society, there is a lot of pressure on men to act in a certain way. They are expected to be strong, stoic, and emotionally distant. However, this limited view of masculinity does a disservice to both men and women. Men have just as much potential for emotional intelligence and caring as women do. By embracing their feminine energy, men can tap into a previously untapped well of strength. When men are able to express themselves emotionally, they can develop deeper relationships with both women and other men.
A few ways for men to tap into feminine energy are:
Listening with empathy
Validating your partner’s needs
Having great grooming
Engaging in creative outlets
Recognizing emotions and expressing them positively
2. What is Masculine Energy
Masculine energy is often associated with strength, power, competition, and assertiveness. This type of energy is often seen as being "active". Masculine energy is focused, goal-oriented and results-driven. It's linear, logical, and loves a good challenge. However, masculine energy that is unbalanced is about aggression and control, which becomes toxic.
It is about presence - being fully present in the moment and focused on the task at hand. When a man is able to be present and focused, he can tap into his true power and potential. In today's world, there is a growing need for masculine energy. With so much external noise and distractions, it can be difficult to stay present and focused. However, when we are able to access our masculine energy, we can find the strength and clarity we need to face whatever life throws our way.
Males Tapping Into Masculine Energy -There are many ways to tap into masculine energy, but some of the most effective methods include spending time in nature, engaging in physical activity, and pursuing creative endeavors. When a man is in touch with his masculine energy, he may feel more confident and capable. He may also find it easier to take action and make decisions. However, it is important to remember that there is no one right way to connect with masculinity. What works for one man may not work for another. Ultimately, the best way to tap into masculine energy is to explore different options and find what feels most authentic and empowering.
A few ways for men to tap into masculine energy are:
Having firm boundaries
Embracing the role of the protector without control
Creating emotional safety for partner
Females Tapping Into Masculine Energy - Embracing masculine energy is a powerful way to create the life you want, it's important to understand what this really means. Essentially, when you tap into your masculine energy, you're accessing the part of yourself that is assertive, confident, and focused. You're able to take charge and make things happen. This doesn't mean that you have to abandon your feminine energy - in fact, the two work together quite nicely. But if you find yourself constantly struggling to assert yourself or make things happen, tapping into your masculine energy can be a game-changer.
A few ways for women to tap into masculine energy are:
Being goal-driven and having aspirations
Taking action and going after what you want
Having firm boundaries
Speaking with confidence and assertiveness
3.How Women Using Too Much Masculine Energy Can Create Depolarization
There is a lot of pressure on women to be strong and independent nowadays. While there is nothing wrong with being confident, independent, and self-sufficient, there can be a downside to carrying too much masculine energy when it comes to romantic relationships. When a woman is too focused on achieving and maintaining power, she can unintentionally create a state of depolarization. This actually repels a man and can make him feel like he has to compete with her.
A woman who is too aggressive and domineering can be a turn-off for many men. This is because masculine energy is traditionally associated with qualities like assertiveness and independence, which are typically seen as desirable in men but not in women. If a woman is embracing this side of her it can make the man feel emasculated. The less emotional a woman is, the harder it will be for a masculine man to connect with her. Men are attracted to women who are in touch with their feminine side. They want a woman who is soft, loving, nurturing and deeply caring.
4.How Men Using Too Much Feminine Energy Can Create Depolarization
When a man uses too much feminine energy, he creates a state of depolarization. Depolarization can cause a man to feel disconnected from his masculine energy, leading to feelings of insecurity and even depression. For example, if a man is overly emotional and sensitive, it can make his partner feel like she has to be the strong one all the time. This can lead to her feeling resentful and unappreciated.
A man who emotionally floods his partner with his needs will start to make a feminine woman feel suffocated and she will repel his energy. This is a turn-off to a woman because she is looking for someone who is solid in his demeanor and she can trust to lead the connection.
If you feel your energy or your partner’s is out of balance in your relationship, feel free to drop us a message here to realign the connection.