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Breaking Free from Overthinking: Why Values Make Decision-Making Easier
Have you ever felt stuck in the loop of overthinking? You replay scenarios, weigh every pro and con, ask everyone for their opinion and...

J.Yuhas
2 min read


Understanding the Difference Between General Anxiety and Relationship Anxiety (and How Avoidant Partners Can Amplify It)
Anxiety is part of the human experience. It’s our body’s way of signaling that something needs attention. But when those anxious thoughts...

J.Yuhas
4 min read


How Trauma Shapes Thinking (and How Healing Changes Everything)
Trauma doesn’t just live in the past. It wires the brain to perceive and react to the present. When left unhealed, trauma thinking is...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


How To Stop Letting Emotions Run Your Life: Why Living in Values Sets You Free
Depression, Anxiety, and the Power of Presence You’ve likely heard the saying: Depression is living in the past. Anxiety is living in the...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


11 Psychological Reasons Avoidants Resist Boundaries And How It Sabotages Real Connection
Most people think of boundaries as something everyone should want in healthy relationships, but for someone with an avoidant attachment...

J.Yuhas
4 min read


9 Signs an Avoidant Partner Is Punishing You (Without Saying a Word)
We all know what it feels like to argue with someone who raises their voice or throws a sharp word like a dagger. But what about when the...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


11 Ways Your Partner Might Be Expecting Too Much of You (and What to Do About It)
Let’s get one thing clear: relationships don’t come with expectations, people bring expectations into relationships. What your partner...

J.Yuhas
4 min read


7 Ways to Repair a Relationship with an Avoidant Partner After a Major Blowout
Blowout arguments can rupture trust, escalate fears, and create emotional distance, especially with someone who leans avoidant in their...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


Sunscreen, Suitcases, and Saying No: How to Set Family Boundaries During Your Summer Vacation (Without Burning Out)
It always starts with the best intentions. The invitation comes: "Come stay with us for a few days!" or “Let’s all do the lake house...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


Tired of Saying Sorry All the Time? It Might Be Chronic People-Pleasing, Not a You Problem
The Psychology Behind Over-Apologizing and How to Reclaim Your Voice Do you constantly say “sorry,” even when you haven’t done anything...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


10 Ways Your Borderline Mother Shaped the Partners You Choose Today
When you’re raised by a borderline mother, love becomes a performance. You learn early that being "good enough" means self-sacrificing,...

J.Yuhas
5 min read


Texting Habits of Someone Who Actually Loves You (Even When You’re Committed or Married—and Not Just Being Used for Emotional Comfort)
Let’s be real—just because someone texts you regularly doesn’t mean they’re showing up with real love. And even in a committed...

J.Yuhas
4 min read


When Love Feels Like the Pain You Grew Up With: 10 Narcissistic Echoes in Your Relationship That Resemble Your Father
When you grow up with a narcissistic father, you don’t just survive — you adapt. You become a master of emotional self-denial, scanning...

J.Yuhas
5 min read


Betrayal Broke Me, But Trusting Again Set Me Free
Betrayal feels like a rug pulled out from under you, but somehow, you’re still expected to stand. It’s the friend who shared your...

J.Yuhas
4 min read


10 Things People with High Emotional Intelligence NEVER Do
Emotional intelligence (EQ) isn’t just about managing emotions—it’s about handling life with awareness, self-control, and grace. Highly...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


Why Anxious and Avoidant Attachment Are More Similar Than You Think
Attachment theory helps us understand how we connect with others, especially in close relationships. When people think of anxious and...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


Are You Being Honest or Just Sharing Too Much? The Shocking Truth About Transparency vs. Oversharing
In a world that often encourages vulnerability and openness, the line between transparency and oversharing can become blurred. While both...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


How to Respond to an Avoidant Individual: Strategies for Different Relationships
Avoidant individuals can be challenging to connect with, whether in romantic relationships, professional settings, family dynamics, or...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


What They Lack Shows Up in Their Defense Mechanisms
Defense mechanisms often reflect deeper personal deficiencies. When a partner lacks essential emotional or relational skills, these gaps...

J.Yuhas
3 min read


Don’t Let Doubt Steal Your Voice: How to Set Boundaries and Reclaim Your Power
There’s a moment we’ve all faced: you’re staring at your phone or sitting in front of a blank screen on the computer. Your heart is...

J.Yuhas
3 min read
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