Relationships can feel like heaven one moment and emotional warfare the next. You’re laughing together and then suddenly you’re arguing about tone, timing, dishes, or a text message that wasn’t answered fast enough. But here’s what most people don’t understand, Conflict isn’t the real problem. Unprotected nervous systems are. When you understand the psychology behind behavior, yours and theirs, you can turn relationship pain into deeper intimacy and emotional pleasure. Let’s

He disappears for days, then blows up your phone. What should you text back?! You and this guy have been texting for a month. You are...